All the election result articles that should have gone up today

It's been a long time, but the recent presidential (and other!) election compels me. I went to school for journalism way back in *werhiowereorwer* what? Can you hear me? OK, cool* and back then we learned that journalists don't share their political leanings. Although I've moved into the women's lifestyle space, it's a bad habit …

A definitive guide of your lovemaking skills based on where you went to eat last night

This isn't my usual style, so if you're expecting one of my parenting rants or #BlackLivesMatter type subject matter, come back later. But i've been ever so inspired by Beyonce's surprise single Formation that I couldn't let the masses go without knowing how THEY measure up in the real world based on the scale she …

When no shoe box in the world is big enough to hold your memories

I have two shoe box-sized gift boxes stacked neatly in my office on the ledge that would house pillows if I were the type of person who would buy window nook pillows instead of just talking about buying window nook pillows. Mostly, they sit there, untouched. And every now and then, something may get tossed …

Not today

Not today

One day, my husband I will have to change our children's reality about what it means to be black before someone does it for us. And I dread that day.